SHORT COMMUNICATION 96
No Emotional Attachments
By
Roger Behra
It is no secret, but it is kept quiet to a large degree by the mass media that teenagers and younger get involved in intimate sexual behavior. Once in a while there will be an article in the newspaper on this subject, and that is when the article is about sexually transmitted diseases. Nothing much is ever said about how wrong it is morally.
What is wrong and alarming about teen and younger sexual activity along with the immoral aspect is the fact that takes place very frequently and with no emotional attachments. The acts are merely cold physical activities. There are reasons for such behavior.
An article published some months ago stated that when a mother suspects that a daughter is involved in sex is to arrange for birth control pills. In matters of their sons, the sons are given advice about condoms. Mostly, the worry was about teen pregnancies or sexually transmitted diseases, and that girls will be girls and boys will be boys. Rarely was morality ever mentioned. Parents absolutely have to take a stronger moral and spiritual approach to their children’s immoral and unemotional behavior. A great part to a good solution is up to the parents. It has to start their in the home.
Television sitcoms in the early evening are also part of the teen sex problem. The sitcoms present sex as a normal part of growing up, and that it is sort of okay. In teenage bedrooms where there are computers internet pornography greatly stimulates sexual desire and school environment conversation. That creates obsessions and addictions. Internet pornography stimulates thoughts and desires that later are put into action in a cold and unemotional sexual way. It leads to what is termed “lemming behavior”.
An added factor is raging hormones because of the particular time of human growth and maturation. Hormonal activity pours fuel onto all the other reasons for unemotional sexual activity by teenagers. And as male teenagers face their raging hormones, they are faced each day with the very immodest dress and the fashions of teenage girls. The very tight blue jeans, bare midriffs and half exposed breast cause temptations galore. It is a win/win situation in the direction of sex for the sake of sex without the tender and amorous feelings of sex in the right context.
What teenagers are too young to realize is the fact that unemotional sexual activity is seriously harming their present and their future. It can lead to demonic influence, or demonic activity, or demonic affliction, and even demonic possession as time passes. It can lead to the absence of a proper and beautiful physical married life during adulthood later on. Their teenage behavior is so important, and parents who do not realize that are to blame to a great degree. It should be emphasized sternly that any teenage sexual activity should be avoided at all costs for the present as well as for the future.
R.B.
7-12-09