Parents Need to Know, By Roger Behra

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Parents Need to Know

By

Roger Behera

Parents, please, it is time to listen to some very gooed advice. It is much worse out there than you think. You have to get involved and pay attention to your own teenager’s secret life and particularly you daughter’s. Computers have changed everything, and it is not for the better. Start your involvement immediately. Get your child’s computer set up outside the bedroom and preferably where you can monitor what is going on at all times. Check your child’s computer out when the child is at school or away from it. Here is the reason why.

Recently, two mothers who are good friends decided to check out some links on their teens’ computers while they were at school. Mother A got very upset when her suspician was verified. The strong suspician was that her 15-year-old daughter was engaging in oral sex. Mother A contacted mother B and recommend that she do the same. Mother B had her suspicion verified that her 16-year-old son was involved in pornography viewing on the internet and exchanging information with a friend. It was a crash course in their teen’s secret life and parents need to know.

Mother A called her daughter’s school counselor and explained the situation to her. Mother A got shocking news from the school counselor that it is very common for girls to give oral sex to boys in grade sis before they have sex later in grade eight. One girl told the counselor that oral sex takes the place of the goodnight kiss and that they do not consider oral sex as sex. One girl said she had oral sex at age 15 and knew lots who also had it. Teens consider oral sex as “safe” sex and a safeguard of their virginity. The counselor emphasized that it is not all that safe, and that her daughter look up oral herpes online. It is a common STI (sexually transmitted infection). Mother A went from shocked to extremely worried.

Mother B got shocking news also from the counselor that internet pornography is commonly viewed by teenagers as well as adults, and that it is protected by the constitution as free speech. Mother B had her suspician confirmed when she read her son’s internet post. All mother B can do is let her son us the computer only outside the bedroom and under her supervision.

Two mothers found out disturbing facts about their child’s secret life. They also found out that the American culture is much sicker than ever imagined, and that their children were part of the sickness. When it comes down to morality, parents have a perfect right to invade their children’s secret life before age eighteen. The two mothers found out what too many mothers are oblivious to and have decided to do their best to spread the word about what can go on in a teen’s secret life. Oral sex and STI’s are a definite reality and very common.

Internet pornography, teen oral sex, and teen sexual intercourse is absolutely so morally wrong, harmful in many ways, and a sickness throughout America’s culture. Teens are the future of America’s culture, and morally speaking and considering the future of America’s culture appears to be very bleak in a very big way. Counselors already know that. Parents need to know that, also.

R. B.

Is Washington Trustworthy?

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Is Washington Trustworthy?, By Roger Behra

By

Roger Behra

The answer to the trustworthy question is definitely NO. The American culture has taken another broadside hit when recently it was revealed that 78 percent of Americans said in a survey they have little faith and trust in the politicians in Washington. Really, that is no surprise. What is a surprise is the 78 percent total. Only 22 percent said they can trust Washington almost always. The 78 percent who say they cannot trust Washington is the highest percentage in half century.

The reasons for the high percentage of no trust are very noteworthy. Americans are so tired of politicians not following through on their promises or changing their minds after being elected. Nearly half of those questioned said Washington negatively affects their daily lives. There is too much government in people’s businesses and the taxes on their businesses keeps increasing along with inflation which affects the price of their goods for sale.

The majority in the survey calls Washington too big and too powerful. They say the government interferes too much in state and local matters. The majority wants a much smaller government witch fewer services. The survey found that Obama’s decisions were partly to blame for the greater distrust in Washington. His decisions have generated great anti-government views. The majority believes that decisions made in Washington caused the great economic problems that presently exist.

A great deal of distrust centers around the President himself. There is a very strong suspicion that Obama was not born a citizen of America and that Washington and the American media is staying very silent.

There are three reasons that strongly support the suspicion:

1. President Obama can quickly eliminate any suspicion by showing the LONG FORM of his birth certificate which tells where and when he was born and gives the names of the doctors in attendance. The short form from Hawaii does not.

2. The sister of Obama’s father said she was in the delivery room when he was born in Kenya.

3. All of the media in America has completely stayed silent which adds greatly to the strong suspicion. That is no surprise. The very liberal media does not want to investigate a very liberal president. The media would have jumped at a chance to investigate conservative president.

The old saying “throw the rascals out” is more true today than ever before. But that leaves a large question to be answered. Who is trustworthy enough to replace the thrown out rascals? New rascals would add insult to the injury already coming out of Washington, and who needs that which is a very good possibility, indeed.

R. B.
4-22-10

Another Decision to Regret, By Roger Behra

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Another Decision to Regret

By

Roger Behra

During the fifteen month (January, 2009-April, 2010) President Obama has been in office several of his decisions have been either not necessary or not all constructive for the future of America’s culture. And two of his decisions are purely incredible.

The first incredible decision took place with his economic bailout plan for America. It did practically nothing to improve America’s economy. What it did do was to increase government control and pile incredible national debt upon incredible national debt. According to economic planners it is going to take many decades to even make a serious dent in the national debt recovery. That decision is to be a lasting burden on generations to come.

The second incredible decision took place on April 8, 2010. The New Start treaty was signed into effect by Barack Obama. That treaty cancels the protection the United States has been giving to other countries if they were attacked with nuclear weapons from another country. Now those other countries have to develop their own nuclear weapons. Meanwhile, countries with nuclear weapons do not have to think twice or three times before using them. Small countries can produce and sell materials to help other countries to develop weapons of mass destruction.

The two countries that are especially happy about the New Start treaty are Iran and North Korea. They detest the United States. Iran would like to see the U.S (Israel, also) wiped off the world map. Iran has been working night and day to produce very high grade uranium, and soon it will be a job done. North Korea has a rocket that can reach the U.S. They would love to have nuclear weapon to threaten the U.S. It’s going to become a reality under the New Start treaty. More advanced countries can produce and sell nuclear materials to other countries. Iran has already unveiled and advanced centrifuge. It speeds uranium enrichment by a factor of 10. Iran and North Korea are working together on nuclear work.

The naiveté of Barack Obama is stunning. Seeing America retreat will cause other countries to rethink their positions, and some of them will arm themselves with weapons of mass destruction. There is no greater spur to extremely excite other countries to rapidly produce nuclear weapons when they see the American nuclear umbrella of protection furl and retreat. The New Start treaty is an insane decision of great proportion. It has much more so emboldened Iran and North Korea to now go hell-bent into the development of nuclear weapons, and that is where the present insanity rests. Oh, my goodness! What Obama’s insane decision has put forth on the front burner of nuclear insanity!

R. B.
4-18-10

Those Rampant Illicit Sexcapades, By Roger Behra

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Those Rampant Illicit Sexcapades

By

Roger Behra

There are several negative activities going on at the same time in the American culture, but the rampant illicit sex that goes on around the clock has to be at the top of the list from the activity, moral, and spiritual standpoints. It has become a great cultural scourge, and it is better known as evil sex. Yes, there is such a thing.

The word rampant means “widespread and impossible and out of control” The word illicit means “against a law or rule”. “A sexual relationship that is exciting or risky” is an escapade. It can also be called a sexcapade. Sex that is against moral laws and rules and is widespread is causing great harm and suffering, one way or another to multitudes of people.

Rampantly illicit sex takes many forms. It includes teacher-students sex, clergy sex with minor boys and girls, rape, homosexual sex, groupy sex with professional athletes, cohabitation, and adultery. Cohabitation and fornication is very popular among young people, and teen sex has parents and medical people very worried because of the great increase in transmitted diseases. Every one of these activities comes under the heading of evil sex, and the ruined careers, personal suffering, and harm brought about is hard to measure.

Here are some examples. One professional NFL football player has fathered seven children out of wedlock, and six of them have different mothers. Tiger Woods has had adulterous sex with 21 known women over a period of years, even while his wife was expecting, and in the same bed while his wife was away at times. Movie actor Jesse James, considered a sexaholic, cheated on his wife, Sandra Bullock, and confessed to having sex with several women. Thirty-five percent of teens have had fornicated sex before age nineteen. Reports of rape, is in the news very frequently. Groupy sex with professional athletes is widespread. Cohabitation is considered normal. Adultery by both sexes is no longer considered unusual.

Here is in example that happened very recently of how illicit adulterous evil sex has ruined the careers of two young lives and caused harm and suffering to an innocent victim. On April 3, 2010, a married off-duty 30-year-old police officer forced his way into a 25-year-old’s car at gunpoint. He instructed her to go to a secluded area. There he allegedly did the attacking inside her car. He allegedly forced her to have intercourse, punched her with his right fist twice on the right side of her face and once so hard in the stomach she could not breathe. Then he allegedly attempted another sex act but lost his erection. He once put the gun inside her mouth and threatened to shoot her twice. He also tried to choke the the woman.

The attack ended when his cell phone kept ringing. Quickly he grabbed her car keys and called his friend to come and pick him up. In his haste to leave her car he left his service weapon behind. He also left his sunglasses, and these two articles led to his arrest. Later her car keys were found in the possession of his friend. The two officers have been arrested, charged, and jailed, and the illicit sexcapade also led to the ruin of two careers, disgrace, and the suffering and harm to an innocent victim. Crime and evil sex has such a horrendous payoff.

R. B.
4-17-10

Dot Not Despair, By Roger Behra

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Dot Not Despair

By

Roger Behra

Jenny, a six-grade girl came home from school one day recently, and her mother noticed that her daughter seemed depressed and full of despair. After talking to her daughter, Mom got to the bottom of Jenny’s situation.

That day in social studies class the topic was world events. Jenny’s teacher got her students to have a much clearer idea of what was going on in America and the third world countries. Jenny became more and more depressed as the class progressed. Learning about young people her age in very depressed as the class progressed. Learning about young people her age in very poor countries who had few or no opportunities and very little food was very depressing for her. Jenny was saddened to learn that many leaders do not really care about their own people, and that other countries were not very caring also. The thought of so many young people her age were dying from lack of food and medical care was heavy on her mind.

Jenny´s mother help somewhat to relieve her daughter’s mental state. She reminded Jenny that God is always there to help her and everyone at all times and that He is in control of everything that happens for good reasons not understand able always by us. Her mother also gave her the words of a song by David Hass and asked her to read them when she was depressed and had feelings of despair. The song words are as follows:

JESUS CARES

I will come to you in the silence,
I will lift you from all your fear
You will hear my voice, I claim you as my choice,
Be still and know I am here.

I am hope for all who are hopeless,
I am eyes for all who long to see.
In the shadows of the night I will be your light,
Come and rest in me.

I am strength for all the despairing,
Healing for the ones who dwell in shame.
All the blind will see, the lame will all run free,
And all will know my name.

I am the word that leads all to freedom,
I am the peace the world cannot give.
I will call your name, embracing all your pain,
Stand up now, walk, and live.

Don´t be afraid, I am with you.
I have called you each by name.
Come follow me, I will bring you home
I love you and you are mine.

R. B.

Some Very Real Events, By Roger Behra

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Some Very Real Events

By

Roger Behra

The Coast to Coast radio program hosted by George Nory is not always interesting on a daily basis, but on April 8, 2010, it was over the top interesting. George’s guest was Dr. Jeffery Long, M.D. who got involved in the question, “What happens when we die?” That is the 64 million dollar question. The 120 minute program passed very quickly and was exceedingly informative.

The program was centered around 4 real events as follows:

1. The happy near-death experience (NDE).
2. The fearsome near-death experience (FNDE).
3. The before-death experience (BDE).
4. The after-death experience (ADE).

Millions of people have over the centuries have experienced one or more of these events, so Dr. Long involved himself in the scientific research and validity of these events. His research conclusions verify the actuality and validity of these events, and the revelations discussed during the program were very informative and in many cases quite startling.

During his research he interviewed hundreds of experiences who had one or more of the four events. The most common event is the happy NDE, but he found out there definitely are fearsome NDEs also. Along with validating the NDE Dr. Long verified that all NDEs transform lives in a very positive way regardless of the kind of NDE. The NDE can last for only a few minutes or a very long time. The longer the experience the more is involved in the story being told. The NDE verifies that there is and afterlife, a Supreme Being, a life review, deceased relatives and friends, and a sample of what heaven is like. The fearsome near-death experience reveals the existence of a dark place where no one wants to be.

Dr. Long also interviewed patients who were actually in the dying process. They reported to him the visions of deceased relatives who appeared to them and were going to help them in the transition to the afterlife.

Dr. Long also interviewed surviving family members who had after-death experiences that included the family member who had recently died. There are 12 known types of ADEs. An ADE can happen very soon or years later and at anytime during the day or night.

Dr. Long was very careful to make sure that the NDE was not a product of drugs or hallucination. That was very important because most doctors believe that the NDE is caused by drugs or hallucinations as a result of oxygen deprivation.

The lasting results of Dr. Long’s research are the fact that NDEs are real, that they are comforting, and that they are transformative. His revelation about before death visions of the dying and after-death experiences of the surviving relative family members was also very comforting. The fact that all NDEs help to transform lives in a very positive way is a lasting tribute to the NDE here on earth, as well as enlightening for all of us who have to sooner or later become involved in the dying process itself.

R. B.
4-11-10

When Trust Is Lost, By Roger Behra

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When Trust Is Lost

By

Roger Behra

Everyday now something is revealed in the various media that greatly lessens trust and faith in human beings. The evil behavior being revealed seems to be not only more frequent but more varied and repulsive. Many of the people involved are people in trusted positions and occupations that require the utmost trust and faith in the American culture. During the past twenty-five years especially the American culture has steadily declined to an alarming level because of the frequency and variation in the types of crime. There seems to be no depth to America’s cultural decline.

Along with ordinary citizens more highly trusted citizens are being exposed as participants in evil activities that are quite reprehensible. The trusted citizens include politicians, Catholic priest, Protestant ministers, public school teachers, and police officers to name a few types. It is so sad deplorable to witness many educated and trusted individuals ruin their careers, their lives, and drag America’s culture to low depths while they do so. It is bad enough when ordinary citizens do so.

In the recent past two state governors had to resign in political and personal disgrace because of behavior unbecoming of their office. Almost daily in the print media, on radio, and during television broadcast Catholic priest in America and other parts of the world are being accused of inappropriate behavior and sexual contact with teenage boys and girls. Teacher-student sex in more and more common and in the news often. Police officers are using their position and opportunity to take advantage of women drivers and get involved in sexual activities, and in some cases rape at the point of a gun.

On Saturday, April 3, 2010, an Orange County police was involved in a carjacking, kid napping, and the brutal rape of a restaurant waitress at the point of a gun. His officer friend witnessed the carjacking and later came to pick up the officer after the rape. The officer who did the rape was connected to it, because in haste to leave the women’s car with his officer friend he left his gun in the woman´s car. Two days later both officers were arrested and are now charged with multiple offenses. The 30-year officers have ruined their careers and lives.

In New Jersey several ordinary citizens were involved in a despicable crime involving the gang rape of a 7-year-old girl while the girl’s 15-year-old sister watched and took money fort it. A 20-year-old man has already been arrested.

When upright people lose trust and faith in those of positions of trust and faith, it becomes a very disheartening situation for the people and the culture. That is happening very frequently throughout American culture nowadays. The down hill slide has reached alarming depths with no end in view.

R. B.
4-10-10